Wedding budget calculator

Most calculators hand you the same percentage table everyone else gets. This one allocates your money across the 9 line items guests actually remember and caps the 23 they never notice. Free, no email needed to see your numbers.

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“I ran my numbers here at 11pm and bought it before midnight. It was the first time the budget felt doable.”

Priya S., Chicago · $71,000 wedding
$52,000140 guests · tier 2 city

Allocated $52,000 across 9 items. Largest: Food, $11,500. Cap on everything else: $4,150.

  1. Food$11,500
  2. Venue — the bones of the room$10,750
  3. Photography$5,400
  4. Bar — quality and openness$4,500
  5. Focal florals$3,900
  6. Music & entertainment$3,900
  7. Attire$3,400
  8. Lighting$2,950
  9. Paper & typography$1,450
Cap — all 23 low-impact items$4,150 · 8%

$371 per guest, all in.

All 32 lines, live in Google Sheets, plus the other seven workbooks.

How to split a wedding budget

The mistake almost everyone makes is funding every category evenly. Guests do not experience a wedding evenly. Ask someone about a wedding two years later and they will tell you about the room, the food, the bar and whether the party was good. They will not mention the favours, the chair covers or the seating-chart display.

So the split above is weighted by what registers. Venue and food take the largest share because they are what people are standing in and eating. Lighting gets a real allocation because it is the cheapest way to make a room look expensive. Everything invisible shares one hard cap.

The default allocation

Recommended wedding budget allocation by category
CategoryShareOn $50,000
Venue — the bones of the room22%$11,000
Food18%$9,000
Photography11%$5,500
Bar — quality and openness9%$4,500
Focal florals8%$4,000
Music & entertainment8%$4,000
Attire7%$3,500
Lighting6%$3,000
Paper & typography3%$1,500
Everything else — 23 items, capped8%$4,000

Cost per guest is the fastest lever

Divide everything by headcount, venue included. A $50,000 wedding for 130 guests is about $385 a head. That number moves faster than any category cut: removing twenty guests usually saves more than eliminating an entire line item, because catering, bar, rentals, stationery and favours all scale per person.

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